Sr. M. Rosalie Steever, MC

Many of you who attended our wedding had the pleasure of meeting Ms. Kelly Steever, my roommate in Montevideo, Uruguay, and many of those who did have inquired about her so I thought I’d provide this update. Kelly & I spent an academic year abroad in the home of Luis & Malena Arzuaga almost nine years ago while we attended La Universidad Catolica del Uruguay. While we were away, Kelly found her vocation to the religious life, and more specifically, the Missionaries of Charity. It was a beautiful thing to watch – she fell deeply in love with Christ and the poor and the perfect match for her was Blessed Mother Theresa’s religious order. When we returned to the United States, Kelly finished her bachelor’s degree, paid off her school loans, and made preparations to enter religious life. This last May, she took her first vows and the name Sr. M. Rosalie Steever, MC (Missionary of Charity). I must confess, I have not been very good about staying in touch with Sr. Rosalie and since she cannot write to non-family members during her formation, she has not been able to update me as to her whereabouts. I know she started her studies in New York City (the Bronx), then went to Mexico City, and then to California. I recently got a hold of her mother in South Dakota who was able to give me her current information in CA and the picture posted below. I don’t have to tell you how happy she is – the picture really is worth a thousand words. Living with Sr. Rosalie for a year is one of the greatest blessings of my life. And her example of simple joy, unceasing charity and a genuine desire for holiness truly humble me.

I searched around on-line to find a good website for further reading on the Missionaries of Charity, but somewhat not surprisingly, they have no official website. I found a good description of the order and we’ll have to leave it at that – The Missionaries of Charity reach out to the poorest of poor, taking in the destitute and the dying, bathing their wounds and helping those about to pass on, to do so with dignity. I also found this daily schedule. I thought you’d find it interesting:

Sister Rosalie.JPG A typical day in the life of a sister:

04:30 am Arise
05:00 am Morning Prayer
06:00 am Meditation
07:00 am Mass
07:30 am Breakfast
08:00 am Cleaning
09:00 am Missionary duties
12:00 pm Prayer
12:30 pm Lunch
01:30 pm Rest
02:00 pm Tea
02:30 pm Missionary duties
05:00 pm Adoration
07:00 pm Laundry
07:30 pm Supper
08:00 pm Recreation
09:00 pm Prayer
09:30 pm Retire

Molly Smiles

Molly SmilesWell, I’ll be honest, Molly has been smiling for over a month now (actually, since she was about six weeks old)! I know, I know, how could we let so much time go by without showing you? The truth is that she has been hard to catch on camera and also that we’ve been slow to update the photo album – but you’ll forgive us since we just put up dozens more photos, right? I’m sure you’ll agree that Molly is even more beatiful with a drooly, gummy grin!

At her 2-month checkup, Molly was 23 inches “tall” (75th percentile) and weighed 12 lbs. 10 oz. (90th percentile!) so she is well on her way to being a Gerber baby poster child! She’s started following objects in her line of sight and especially keeping an eye out for her big sister. Livy definitely gets the biggest smiles out of her and also causes some of her most piercing shreiks by doing what we like to call a little “too much.” Usually, Olivia has good intentions, but Molly is not up for wrestling or sharing a water bottle quite yet (this we know from experience). I have noticed in the past week, though, how much Livy enjoys entertaining Molly and how sweetly Molly responds to any attention from her. This baby stage is so rewarding because Molly is all love, all sweetness, and truly delights in the simple gift of a smile.

Family Camping: Take Two

Somehow, a camping trip never goes quite like you’ve planned it. It all started when I told JR that I wanted to take the girls to a pumpkin patch and he said that he wanted to take them camping – since the weather was forecasted to be so beautiful for the weekend (highs in the 80s, lows in the 60s), we decided to do both. So a couple weekends ago, we packed up the truck and headed to Elgin for the Pumpkin Festival. It was very nicely done with a petting zoo (see photos & video), pony rides, a hay bale maze, a hayrack ride, and plenty o’ pumpkins. We picked a nice round one for the front porch and then headed back into town to try Southside Barbecue for lunch. We ordered a brisket plate to share and some of their famous Elgin sausage. We are used to eating at Rudy’s here in Austin, so it was odd that we didn’t get free pickles, onions & extra bread. JR also found it very strange that it was rustic authentic barbeque, but they had plastic toothpicks!

After a quick stop at the grocery store we headed to Bastrop State Park and the lost pines of Texas intending to car camp. However, there was a sign at the park entrance saying that all the campsites were full. Deciding we didn’t want to pass up the opportunity to camp, we went ahead and secured a primitive camping permit. Since we have the Texas State Parks Pass we didn’t have to pay an entrance fee and we also had a coupon for half off camping so it only cost us $5. Getting to the area where primitive camping is allowed requires a hike of about a mile (with all your gear & children), but there is plenty of space since you can set up your campsite anywhere in that area as long as you are 50 feet off the trail. In the parking lot at the trail head, JR quickly scanned the contents of the truck and loaded up the Bob jogging stroller (aka “the pack muleâ€?) with all the necessities. JR took Livy in the Kelty Kid Carrier and pushed the stroller while I took Molly in the Baby Bjorn carrying a water jug in one hand and Red’s lead in the other and we headed out into the wilderness. We were both a little concerned when the first 100 yards of trail was a 30 degree decline covered with rocks and tree roots. Would the whole trail be this challenging? The good news was that that was the worst of it and we were quickly strolling along more even ground. The bad news was that Livy was screaming at the top of her lungs because it had been so long since we had taken her in the Kelty Carrier and she thought it was some sort of torture device. We tried singing, pointing out sights along the way, watching Red and eventually, she broke and decided that maybe it was actually fun. It is a really nice park with tall scenic pines that set it apart from the rest of the Texas landscape. There is a pond on the map about a mile and a half in that looked like it might make a nice campsite. We hiked all the way to it but, the pond was not so picturesque, so we back tracked a little ways. JR & Livy found a great spot and set up camp for Molly, Red & I. (The pictures in the photo album are mapped to the exact GPS coordinates.) We had bratwurst and baked beans for supper and settled in for the evening. For a bedtime snack, we made popcorn over the camp stove and then climbed into the tent.

For those of you who read about our first camping trip with Livy, you might be wondering how the night went. It was actually pretty uneventful. It probably took about an hour for Livy to settle down and fall asleep and it took a little good cop – bad cop routine to get her to sleep. JR forced her to rock with him (she hates being rocked) and when he let her go she was mad enough that she crawled over by me to be consoled and fell asleep. Molly slept really well and except for the obvious fact that we need a bigger tent (ours is just a 2-person), we all got a decent amount of sleep. In the morning, JR made ham & eggs with OJ, and then we packed up the campsite and headed back to the truck. We tried to do a few geocaches along the way, but “mugglesâ€? were near all of them, so we dumped our stuff at the truck and went on a different trail to leave a travel bug which we’ve had for way too long. After that, everyone had their fill of hiking and we declared our camping trip a success.

On the way back home, we stopped at the other local barbecue hot-spot in Elgin – Meyers. Personally, I thought Meyers was better. I had the chopped beef sandwich and JR had the brisket plate. Livy was a HUGE fan of the pork ribs and we had to pry the bones out of her fingers when it was time to go. Livy earned the nickname “Meat” on this trip because that is pretty much all she ate and she frequently told us, “I need more meat.â€? We got home just in time to clean up for Mass. It was a packed weekend, but one we’ll always remember – our first camping trip with two girls and a dog!

Our First Month with Molly

Whew! Where did the time go? Molly is already four weeks old and we hardly remember what life was like without her! Here’s our top ten highlights & fun facts from Molly’s first month:

  1. From their first meeting, Molly & Olivia seemed to be aware of their connection as sisters. Livy was immediately protective of her and wanted to be sure only Mommy & Daddy were holding “my baby.” While she’s still learning how to be gentle with her baby sister, Livy is quickly learning how to be Mommy’s little helper and is the first to come running with Molly’s pacifier if she starts to cry.
  2. Just to show off, Molly gained almost two pounds in time for her two week check-up (granted, it was closer to three weeks since Mommy forgot the first one that was scheduled!).
  3. All four of Molly & Olivia’s grandparents and one great grandma came to TX for a visit! What fun it was to have a houseful of grandparents eager to read stories, polka dance, play ball and go for walks. How we wish they were just around the corner everyday!! We miss you already!
  4. Livy got to be roommates with her Great Grandma Hatt (Jenny’s Mom’s Mom) on the previously mentioned visit. Even though Livy is all transitioned over to her big girl bed (thanks to JR), she went “old school” and slept in the crib while we had visitors and Great Grandma slept in her new youth bed (the short genes finally came in handy!). Not too many kids can say that they were roommates with a great grand parent!!
  5. Molly Josephine Andrews was received into the Catholic Church on September 1st! May the dear Lord bless & keep her all the days of her life!! Molly is named for Sts. Mary and Joseph of the Holy Family. Molly is the Gaelic (Irish) form of Mary and Josephine is the feminine French form of Joseph. My hometown parish (Valparaiso) is named for them as well. Molly also has a great great grandmother named Molly and a great great great grandmother named Josephine!
  6. Visitors from all over the world came to greet Molly! The Mukerhjis came from Oman on the Arabian Peninsula!
  7. Molly is the 37th great grandchild of Albin & Norma Stara (JR’s Mom’s parents)! On the other end of the spectrum, Molly is the 7th great grandchild of Phyllis Hatt (Jenny’s Mom’s Mom) and the oldest is only 3!
  8. We received the bill from the hospital and owed nothing. Really! Thanks to our generous insurance program at National Instruments, we only pay the $15 copay on the first doctor’s visit for each baby. When they are this cheap, not to mention cute, who knows how many we will have!
  9. Three hours after Molly’s birth we had a post (including pictures) up on our website. We’ve enjoyed being able to include all of our friends and family even though many are too far to see Molly in person.
  10. We are a family of FOUR!!!!! And the proud parents of the two most beautiful baby girls in the world!

Baptism

Molly’s grandparents are all coming to meet her this weekend and we’re going to have her baptism while they’re here. It is scheduled for 9:30am on Saturday the 1st of September at St. William’s Catholic Church in Round Rock (go here for directions). We’d love it if you could join us! We’ll be having some simple refreshments at our house following the ceremony and you are welcome to join us there as well – just let me know if you think you’ll come by so I can get you directions and make sure to have enough food. We look forward to introducing you to Molly!!

Olivia at One and a Half

I suppose I should take advantage of this "extra" time before our new baby arrives to update y’all on Olivia’s latest achievements. She is really growing up lately and is all toddler – in fun ways and a few not-so-fun ways, too. Every day I am amazed at what she understands and everyday she shares a little more of what she’s thinking with us. Her vocabulary has grown quite a bit and she is fond of words like feet (her favorite body part) and Abby (her cousin). She can also say apple (which pretty much means fruit in general), all done, baby, ball (also means balloon), bird, boat, book, bubbles, bye-bye, cookie (pronounced khaki and useful for anything in the grains & cereals category), Daddy, dirty, drink (pronounced wong-wong), eye, hello (used only when talking on the phone, remote, or whatever phone-like device is handy), hi, hot (pronounced ice and generally referring to anything uncomfortable), light, look, Mommy, more, mouth, night night, no, nose, open, out, pupec (second favorite body part – Czech for belly button), Red (pronounced led), TV, uh-oh, and her first sentences are "I want more" and "I need more." I have to admit, it’s pretty hard to deny her whatever she "wants" or "needs" when she uses them!

She knows all her basic animal noises (baa baa, bock bock, meow, moo moo, neigh neigh, quack quack, woof woof, and even oooh oooh oooh ahhh (monkey)). If you ask her what the pig says, she scrunches up her nose and breathes through it, but doesn’t make any noise. It’s pretty cute. She also learned what the frog "says" – if you ask her what a frog says she sticks her tongue in and out like the frog on an MSN Messenger wink. She can also point to all the parts of the body. Great Aunt Patti & Uncle Joel gave her a really fun book called "Counting Kisses" and that has helped us find fun ways to learn about her chubby yummy knees and tickly dimpled chin. Most of all, Olivia is our little copycat and wants to try whatever we’re doing – especially whatever Daddy’s doing. This morning JR pounded his fists on the table at breakfast like he was about to make a big announcement and Livy spent the rest of breakfast pounding on the table and giggling. She thinks anything Daddy does is hysterical and really enjoys having him home to mimic. I can’t count the number of times she asks for Daddy when he’s at work. I’m sure paternity leave will be a special time for these two.

We’ve done some updating of furniture for Olivia recently. You might have noticed the new bed in the photo gallery and she also has a new table & chairs in the living room. Both are from IKEA (my new favorite place to shop for children’s furniture). The table & chairs came unfinished, so JR put a nice stain & finish on it. Livy enjoys drawing and coloring and we finally got some finger paints so I know the table & chars will see a lot of use. Like I said, she also got a new bed, but she isn’t sleeping in it quite yet. We won’t put the new baby in the crib for a few months, so I figured we’d let Livy get used to having the new bed in her room for a bit and then start taking naps there and finally sleeping at night there as well. For now it’s a great spot to read books – still her most favorite passtime. She is such a good little bookworm and will sit on her big bed piled with books and pour over them with utter fascination. My favorite is when she picks up a little song book from Grandma Kane and sings to herself. She also reads "What Does Baby Say?" very well by lifting the flaps and making the right baby sounds for each page (another good pick by Great Aunt Patti & Uncle Joel).  

Watching Olivia play is when we realize just how much she’s growing up. She’s started pretending with the baby dolls she got at Christmas from Aunt Lisa & Great Grandma Andrews. Both have eyes that shut when they are lying down, so we put them to bed multiple times a day. All the baby equipment set up around the house (bassinet, swing, bouncer, etc.) has made Livy much more interested in being a little mother. I’m really excited to see what she does when her real baby comes home from the hospital. She also loves to dance and listen to music. She has a CD player in her room and she’ll just go in and press play and dance to her nursery rhymes. And when we’re out in the living room, she stands in front of the entertainment center asking us to turn on the radio. For family walks, we got her a steer & stroll tricycle so that baby can ride in the stroller and she can learn to ride a bike. It has nice rubber (air-filled) tires and a handle so that we can push it without bending over. She is very excited to get it out when Daddy comes home from work and head around the block.  

As adorable as she is, Livy has also started throwing fits (most small and some not-so-small at all!) and using typical toddler words like "mine" and "NO." One of the most demonstrative epidsodes took place at Chik-fil-A when we were all supposed to share an ice cream cone. She immediately called out "mine" and then refused to unhand it so that Mommy & Daddy could have a bite. After forcing her to give it up, she screamed, "NO, MINE" over and over and cried hysterically making quite a scene. So we are bracing ourselves for those "terrible twos" which seem to be arriving just at the same time as the new baby (coincidence?). Another big milestone doesn’t appear to be far off either. She’s not quite ready for potty training yet, but I think she will be around the same time I am (shortly after we get settled with the new baby). She knows when she has dirty pants and requests clean ones by saying "dirty" and making a disgruntled face. She’s also started needing dry pants when they are wet, too. Such a big girl!

With the new baby coming any day (or so they tell us), she and I have not been getting out as much lately, but in addition to visits here and there with friends, we did try two regular things this summer. Fridays we met with a "Bebes Bilingues" playgroup where all the moms and babies spoke in Spanish. It was really fun (and I must admit challenging) to use my Spanish after so long. I think it will be good for the girls (and me!) to keep up with it after we are settled in. We also started a regular playdate with our friends Marlene and Farah. It’s been really nice to have that to look forward to and the girls are becoming such good playmates. Marlene is expecting her second in December, so the new babies will be just right to follow in Farah & Olivia’s footsteps. Really, it has been a great summer. It’s been one of the coolest Texas summers on record, for which I am eternally grateful, and Livy and I have enjoyed getting out and playing at parks and pools and enjoying the last few months of it being just us. Now we are looking forward to sharing our days with baby sister!!

Home Sweet Home

Just wanted to post a quick update – Nathan is home with his lovely wife & daughter!! Welcome, back brother - we missed you!! I haven’t actually spoken to him since he arrived in the US, but I can only imagine the whirlwind the last few days have been. You’re in our thoughts & prayers!!

Anybody’s Guess

When "the one to be named later" decides to come is now literally anybody’s guess. So post a comment with your guess as to when the baby will come and I’ll post your prediction on the calendar below. Here’s what we know so far: the due date is August 15th and Jenny is already about 5 cm dilated (and has been at least 3cm for two weeks). I’m just hoping the baby doesn’t decide to come in the middle of the night. And if you pick 2 weeks late you may not get a Christmas card from Jenny.